Chinese customs on dating
When one middle school girl was asked if she had boy friend she told National Geographic, “There’s a boy who likes me.
But all the boys in my grade are very low-class.” Dating changed under the Communists.
It is often said – only half-jokingly – that to compete even at the lower reaches of the urban Chinese dating market men must have at least a car and a flat.
The matchmaking industry has gone into overdrive, not just to cater to the rich but also because of government unease over the numbers of older single professional women.[Source: Clarissa Sebag-Montefiore, The Telegraph, October 22, 2013 ^|^] “Although forced or arranged marriage was banned in 1950, finding a partner remains a formal process for many.“Marriage is seen as a factor in promoting social stability,” explains Leta Hong Fincher, the author of a forthcoming book on “leftover women” and gender inequality in China.
These sites cater mainly to China’s millions of white-collar workers.
But intense competition, along with mistrust of potential mates’ online claims, has spurred a growing number of singles — rich and poor — to turn to more hands-on matchmaking services.
At university there were only six boys in my class.” She says her mother signed her up for an online dating service without her permission and her dad complains she is too independent.
In China it is not unusual to find women in their late 20s who have never had a relationship.“There’s a huge sense of dislocation in China, and young people don’t know where to turn.” [Source: Brook Larmer, New York Times, March 19, 2013 ^-^] “The confusion surrounding marriage in China reflects a country in frenzied transition.