My daughter is dating a man twice her age
Shortly after our breakup tonight, he sent me a Evan, I’m OK with him not wanting to date me.To be honest, he is such an amazing guy (opposite of the loser musicians and wannabe actor types that I usually end up with) that I often wondered why he was dating me in the first place. Why would he bother texting afterward or bother suggesting that we have another conversation about things in a week? Why wouldn’t he just walk away after doing the dumping? It’s a horrible, horrible feeling, right up there with, well, being dumped.If you want to have children, you’ll have to consider whether fertility will be an issue and whether you or your partner will be around long enough to help raise your kids.Age differences can also mean significant differences in lifestyle.You know, I took his calls and we even went to a few movies together as I thought he might change his mind and want to date me again, but it never happened. Perhaps the guy you dated is thinking he has nothing to lose, and he never stated to you that he was commiting to a relationship with you. By all means, you do not have to take my advice, but just remember by answering his texts and keeping in touch, you are prolonging the inevitable. If you are done with him, than send him on his way.In fact, he went back to the ex girlfriend he was with before me for the second time and a year later married her and wound up divorced 9 months later. Needless to say, I did not lose such a good thing, but at the time, I was heartbroken. If you are game for something with no strings than why not? I am sure he was attracted to you and liked you but just maybe did not feel everything he needed to feel for it to be right. And yes, if you let him stay in touch, he will and you will stay dumped and hurt.
Before you begin a relationship with someone much younger or older than you, it’s important to make a careful assessment of your motivations.And this feeling, if you can imagine it, provides the full explanation for why people act inconsistent. I’m just going to channel him right now and see what I can come up with:“Well, I really like hanging out with JD, but I get the sense that she’s starting to get attached to me. On the other hand, it’s not like I ever promised to marry her or anything. So maybe after I dump her, we’ll just stay in touch.